I have been working on the cases in relationship and marital counseling. There are few reasons which are consistently coming up 1. No or very less communication 2. Cultural and Upbringing differences 3. Interference from close family members 4. Lifestyle related and habits 5. Addictions (Mobile, TV, etc......) 6. Low intimacy or No intimacy 7. Thinking compatibility or Understanding level 8. Turst issues (X-factor) 9. Different social economic status in family 10. Expectation differences Mostly the cases falls in these categories. Mr. Shree Deshpande Counseling Psychologist
What this lock-down gave me: Any lock-down is not good, many of us are facing it for the first time in life – so it’s all about adjustments, adjustments and adjustments. This is mainly written from Indian context in mind. Many of us have heard the word Corona for first time, even though it was there in some of our childhood textbooks but nobody was much aware about it as we all looked at it from study perspective only. Then the new word came Covid-19 and all its seriousness started increasing, and it came to a lock-down. Earlier it was for 1 day so we all enjoyed it and then it was for 21 days and we all became serious about it. It was phase of each and every member of the family to be at home – so it was enjoyable but many of us were not used to be together for such a long period of time, at the same time the news came of all supporting staff (for home) will stop coming from tomorrow, so additional things came to all of us and the phase of work distribution started –